Wish
What I would love to experience or receive.
Library of Love
Where desires become stories.
Explore, keep, and coordinate desires with yourself and the people who matter most. There are many important things that do not fit well in a live conversation. The Library is a place for everyone to discover and express themselves and each other without pressure.
Four desire intents
These 4 intentions allow us to express what matters in our own words and at our own pace. This makes it easier to share parts of ourselves with the people who matter.
Favor
What I am willing to do for others.
Growth
What I want to practice, build, or become.
Indulgence
What I enjoy and want to limit with care instead of shame.
How sharing works
The people we want to do something with are not always the same people we want to share the story with. The Library lets you set the scope and the visibility of each desire as you see fit. Private by default, of course.
Personal
Partner
Friends
Family
Scope controls interaction
Example: A "Proofreading" Favor with a scope of "Friends" allows friends to request that favor from you. Or you can chose to select specific individuals as well.
Visibility controls activity
Example: A "Proofreading" Favor with a visibility of "Friends and Family" would be visible to all your friends and family on the social feed whenever you accept a favor request for it.
This happens automatically when you accept a favor request, no sharing required.
A social feed that stays intimate
See meaningful activity, not algorithmic noise. The feed is chronological and contextual. It shows visible events from you and your contacts, with lightweight likes and comments attached to real moments instead of public-performance pressure.
Gym session, visible to friends. When you track your personal growth, it automatically appears in the feed for your friends.
Your partner offers to fulfill your "Date Night" Wish and you accept? Your friends can see that you both enjoyed your time together.
Not everything has to be shared. Create your own personal bucket list, track your own battles or just observe what your friends are up to.
Supportive structure
More than a feed, less than a spreadsheet. The Library helps with memory, coordination, planning, and reflection without turning life into a rigid system. Most importantly, everything is optional, so no angry Owl shaming you or scoreboards and daily quests.
Notes and journals
Capture context, reflections, and the details you want to remember.
Rules and duties
Keep expectations and agreements where they belong, separate from voluntary desires.
Planning and reminders
Turn meaningful intentions into visible habits, routines, and well-timed actions.
Retrospective reflection
Adjust the model later, calmly. Reflect without turning the week into a verdict.
Treasure and pacing
Growth can earn Treasure. Indulgence can spend it. Reciprocity tools stay narrow and optional.
Designed for real people
Private by default, expressive when useful, and social only where it still feels safe.
Trust principles
The app is built to protect clarity without coercion. Nothing here should feel like debt, bargaining, or scorekeeping. The system is meant to support care and clarity, not pressure.
An unconditional No
Nothing here turns refusal into debt, bargaining, or emotional proof.
Fairness without scorekeeping
The system can support rhythm and reciprocity without turning people into a courtroom case.
Growth without shame
Reflection, enjoyment, and recalibration are part of the product, not signs that you failed.
Your personal library
Library of Love is your collection of desires, duties, rules, notes, journals, and history.
- Discover, express and remember what matters to you.
- Connect with the people you truly care about.
- Share and coordinate your desires with them.
- Together, turn "we should" into "we did".
Your library
Desires
Forget-me-nots
Duties
Journals
Rules
Get started
Open the app page and keep the rest of the story for when you need it. The landing page gives you the model. The app gives you the library.